I observe you yell at your child.
I observe you calling a woman fat.
I observe you starving yourself.
I observe you sit on your ass all day.
I observe you serve your child a juice box at 9 months old.
I observe you. I stare. What on Earth are you wearing?
I observe you laugh at someones misfortune.
I observe you putting on weight by eating sandwiches for three, because you are pregnant with twins.
I observe you demand things from the people around you.
I observe your ego being boosted.
I observe you losing your hair.
I observe you using a disposable diaper, and not flushing the poop.
I observe you yell at others to boost your own self esteem.
I observe you lying. A lot.
…and the anger I feel, gets pent up inside. I observe. I listen. I watch. I don’t say a word.
Judging isn’t the enemy. Judging another person isn’t always a bad thing. Sometimes judging someone for things you feel to the depth of your being are absolutely wrong, is an OK thing. While I try not to judge, I think I need to. I believe that if I see these things occur again, I need to say something.
What do you think? Is judgement an awful thing or a necessary evil?